I Need Ideas

 I'm not going to talk about anything really food, diet, or ana related until tomorrow. Right now what I need is suggestions :) My 21st birthday is coming up in a little over two months and I need party ideas. I've decided that for once, I want to be the center of attention. I want people to make a huge freaking deal about me. Usually I take the back seat and let other people shine, but this time, it's my turn. I want to have a family party and then go do something with my friends. I need suggestions for both. Any web sites, pictures, themes, links, ideas and suggestions are welcome. The only thing I'm opposed to is a party bus/ bar crawl sort of thing. I really don't see the fun in getting so drunk that I get sick, make a fool of myself, pass out, have a hang over and/or forget the whole thing the next day. That's just not my thing. Drinking is fine, but I like my liver how it is. SOOOOO, let's here those ideas pour on in!